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Tips for Working From Home

I finally feel like I’m in the groove of working from home. The first week after leaving my “desk” job was so jam-packed with back to back meetings, I don’t think I really realized just how different it would be. And then the second week came and I was smacked in the face with the harsh reality of how “un fun” working from home was… and just how lonely it would be!
Mornings would be fine, but by the afternoon, I would start to lose myself in my own thoughts and work and it was quite a terrible little spiral from there. (I called my mom so much that first month as I adjusted… just to talk to someone!)
I quickly learned what would and wouldn’t work for me. Actually I think that’s the ULTIMATE key to working from home… learning what works for you and not being afraid to make unconventional changes or adjustments to how you get work done. And, as I wrote this, I realized that a lot of these tips can help you schedule your days at college. As a student, you’re essentially a mini-entrepreneur!

A couple of things (in no particular order) that have really helped me enjoy working from home and making it as productive as possible:
ONE // Don’t Feel Guilty
This was the hardest thing for me to wrap my mind around and the hardest to implement. Yet, it absolutely was the most important. I had just come from a schedule where I was basically doing two full-time jobs and working what felt like around the clock. At some point, I think I began to feel like if I wasn’t working there was something wrong and I should feel guilty. Well, when I decided to quit my job, a huge chunk of my “everyday” work disappeared… but I still had this feeling that I should be working around the clock. (Even though a huge part of quitting was so that I would have more time to, you know, sleep!)
There’s also something, especially when you’re your own “boss,” to be said about not having someone to set the deliverables and deadlines. Technically, the more I work on the blog, the more I network, the more projects I take on, the more beneficial for the bottom line, right? Well, I had to learn the hard way that it’s impossible to keep up and saying no to certain things will help the bottom line more… because you’re focusing your energy and giving yourself time to recover and relax.
I had to really work at this… and sometimes there are nights when I’m out with friends that I can feel that little guilt feeling bubbling up! I have to do some positive affirmations to remind myself the importance of spending time away from work!
TWO // Find A Schedule That Works for You

Over the past few months, I’ve been trying to keep track of my mood and my productivity during the day… and scheduling “working hours” and “breaks” around those peaks. My schedule is weird, but it works out so well for me that I can’t believe I could ever get work done before.
Just to give you an idea of what tends to work for me:
I have tons of energy in the morning, so I try to schedule meetings in the morning. This forces me to shower, dress, etc. Most of these meetings include coffee, so it’s an extra great way to get up and at ’em. I pretty much try to hit the ground running in the morning, and then ease into a nice working rhythm through the afternoon. Generally by 2pm, I’ve put in a good number of hours and gotten the “boring” things off my to-do list. I’ll take a longer break to eat and play with Teddy and maybe run an errand or two. To be completely honest, it’s hard for me to get back into work at this point, so I try to schedule meetings at 4ish so I can get out of my apartment and be forced to do something. I like taking a long time off for dinner after that… lots of relaxation! And then I work a bit more (typically from 8-10pm) when I have a second wind.
My hours are definitely not “9-5.” They kind of end up being 7am-2pm, 4-6pm, and 8-10pm. By working when I’m at my best and relaxing when I need to relax, I end up getting a ton done. Versus trying to get things done when I’m hungry, sluggish, or just unmotivated. This little schedule took me the longest to work out, but tracking my own productivity rather obsessively shed a lot of light on what my schedule would really look like!
THREE // Find Friends

This. This. This. Find friends who you “get” what working from home means. (It doesn’t mean you can just drop your work at the drop of the hat and it doesn’t mean you’re not working!) And find friends who you can work with. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, Mackenzie and I work together in a cafe down the street. It’s just what we both need: company and time outside of our apartments. It’s really fun, but also super productive. We work on so many things together that I generally come with a checklist of questions I need answers from Kenz on and then I go through emails responding to everyone. Plus, we always have someone to bounce and idea or two off of. (That’s something I really miss about working in an office!) The collaboration and working mix is just right here.
FOUR // Make a To-Do List for the Month, Week, and Day

I’ve been making daily to-do lists for as long as I can remember. But I always had a professor’s syllabus or quarterly goals to give me a sense of direction and to really illustrate the “big picture.” Now that it’s pretty much just me, I needed to make the to-do list grander than just a day. (Plus, I was getting so frustrated when I wasn’t completing tasks in one day.)
How I divide my to-do lists:
Monthly: Gives me a big picture view at the things I want to accomplish. Monetary goals, social media number gains, big events, people I want to reach out to, any kind of seasonal posts that I need to do
Weekly: Everything that must get done during the week.
Daily: I divide out the weekly must-dos throughout the week and then this also includes my everyday duties and responsibilities.
FIVE // Know When to Forgive Yourself and When to Push Yourself and When to Praise Yourself

You’re your own boss… praise and critiques are from you and you alone. There’s no quarterly review where your performance is being evaluated… There’s no one telling you “great job!” or “this could have been done better.” I personally found myself missing that feedback loop and had to implement a few guidelines for how to give myself the needed feedback. (Without being to critical of myself to the point where I was burning out!)
Having those monthly/weekly/daily to-do lists certainly help as I have something written down that I can check. Did I accomplish what I said I would? Did I drop any balls? If I got through everything and saw success, I learned how to recognize that and give myself praise. (Instead of just moving right along to the next month…) I learned how to recognize when I had been a little bit too lazy and needed to dig my heels in a bit more to get through the a few more things. I learned how to acknowledge when I did everything I could, but things just didn’t work out.
And a major component of this? Finding strategies to either correct the things that need correcting or doing more of things that went well!
Phew! Okay those are my five tips that I’ve learned so far! Anyone have anything to add? 

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29 Comments

Taylor Cunningham

I definitely have that feeling of guilt when I'm not working, and I hate it so much!! I always feel the need to rush right back home and jump on the computer – not a good thing!

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Taylor Cunningham

Plus I totally agree with all of these – especially the scheduling. When I'm super frustrated, I take a break, and pretty soon I feel better and am ready to go back to work!

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Jen

Now I see where the late night Pinterest activity comes from! Ha! I do fear for the **hopeful** one day when I work from home that I will get lonely. I'll have to break out of my shell and meet some other creative self-employed people who want to work in a shared space or something sometime. 🙂

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Christin

Okay, quick question because it reminded me soooo much of you: Do you know the passion planner? I got one from a kickstarter project for this year and I love, love, love it! Just like you mention in the article, there are sections for daily, weekly and monthly goals, pages for reflections on these goals etc.and it really helped me focus!

Here's the link in case you want to check it out: http://www.passionplanner.com/

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Kaia Greene

@Christin,

Holy cow. Thank you so much for sharing the link to the passion planner! I just printed out my copy for this week. I can't wait to get started.

-Kaia

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Samantha Green

I write a daily to-do list every morning but I'm liking the idea of weekly and monthly ones too. Such a simple idea that I will definitely be trying out in February. People perceive that working for yourself is so much more glamorous that it actually is. Thanks for keeping it real in this post 🙂 xx

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Melissa Mooney

This has once again come at the perfect time……. I am kinda in the same boat as you going from structure to no sturcture and it is hard. I am still trying to make my schedule and stuff. Thanks again for totally posting relevant stuff to my life.

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Courtney

Great advice! I don't *work* from home as in a job, but I feel like some of these could be applied to college classes as well! I definitely need to get on a better schedule with homework and such to be more productive…

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Briana Luca

I've worked from home before (two remote internships) and it definitely is an adjustment. As I enter the post grad world, there are so many options and working from home is one of them depending on the job. I really love all these tips and there's no one better than you to dish them out. I LOVE the idea of creating a monthly "to do list"; I'm big on to-do lists but it's nice to give a different spin on it.

Thank you for this post!

Briana
royallypink.blogspot.com

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Naghmeh

I LOVE this! I'm kind of in the same situation at the moment I meant I never really had the traditional 9-5 job ( other than an internship) I worked in a research lab which had extremely odd hours of work. Now I'm working at home and studying for an exam and I find it very hard to just be at home all the time and I have this fear that if I leave home I won't get any work done, which is silly I know but I just can't help it, so I'm working on finding what works best for me. I found this post very helpful so thank you!
xo
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Amanda McDowell

This is definitely so helpful for a college student! Working from home/being a student gives you so much time to do whatever, so each new semester there's a lot of trial-and-error time for me until I get it worked out.

Number one is a much needed reminder, and the idea of a daily/weekly/monthly to do list will probably be implemented into my routine very soon. Thanks so much!

-Amanda The Polished Hippie

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Kim Topolewski

The old manager I was under was very flexible with working from home and I loved it – some days I just didn't feel like sitting in the office and working from Starbucks/Panera made me more productive. My new manager is not as easy going, but I can work from home if I absolutely need to. I miss it, but some days I think I was slacking off. :X

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Laura

Thank you so much for sharing these tips! As a full-time nursing student, I have to balance work and school and home, so sometimes I make these same decisions, just under slightly different circumstances.

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Kaia Greene

I just moved across the country and started working from home. It's a little lonely…a new place, I don't know anyone here yet. These tips couldn't have come at a better time.

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Ashley B

Get dressed! My biggest issue when I work from home is staying in my pjs all day. Not that this is a bad thing, but I find that I am much more productive and serious about working when I get up, shower, and get dressed!

Ashley | History in High Heels

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Holly C.

I love the idea of taking breaks when you feel hungy, tired, unmotivated – and then coming back to work later because your schedule allows. That's definitely not something that I could ever get away with at my desk job – that's such an awesome perk for you! 🙂

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Morgan Casper

I love this, the downfall to being a writer is reporting to no one but yourself. There are definitely days where I waste so much time doing a lot of nothing, and then the next day I have to play major catch-up.

This is super applicable to college as well, nothing is more important than a well planned schedule.

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Rebecca Field

I love this! I am currently trying to balance my job and university, with home studies and setting up a business from home. It is hard work! I especially appreciate the part on friends not understanding the restrictions of working from home as many of mine didn't when I first began!

http://www.foreverrebecca.com

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Emily Russell

Great post! Definitely great for college students as well. At school I feel like I consistently need to be studying or working, so I am definitely with you on the fact that you need to schedule breaks and try to do fun stuff!

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Sarah

These are all great tips! I love the idea of working from home, but haven't ever committed myself to making it a reality because I am worried that I would be much less productive if I were. If I ever make the change I'll be sure to keep these tips in mind, thanks!

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Erin Adams

Is that a picture of your apartment? If so, where did you get those curtains?! Need! If not, where is the picture credit so I can find out where to buy them…?

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Alex Hubbard

I don't know the rules of Big Blogging (my blog's pretty wee), but if an image isn't yours, shouldn't you cite where it came from in the post? Otherwise a lot of people are going to assume it's yours, and you could be accused of plagiarism! At least, that's what I learned in J-School.

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Nikki

Love these tips!! I hope to get to the point that I can work from home someday, and I worry about things like my schedule. These were so great to keep in mind for the future!

Nikki
thefashionablewife.com

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